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angrezi
OK Sir Jijaji...you asked for it...I started it...but I not gonna say much
only that Kripal is kreepy
angrezi
i mean look at this guy
Dhyana
I like his book about Ramakrishna, Kali's Child, a lot. I know precious little about Ramakrishna and the sources on which bis hagiographies are based, so I cannot have an independent opinion on whether Kripal's conclusions are well-founded. They did appear that way to me as a reader.

But what I found most appealing was the author's attitude of trying to understand Ramakrishna's psyche and his experiences. Trying to extract the truth, not in the investigative sense but a more humanist one: finding the individual behind the myth and riddles, a human experience behind the divine encounter. Not a tinge of sneering or unhealthy fascination with sex, perversion, etc.

My husband was alerted as to the existence of the book by Ravindra Svarupa, who referred to it with an obvious Schadenfreude: "Have you heard, one guy has written a book in which he proves Ramakrishna was a homo-, ha ha ha!" Yet there is nothing of that attitude in the book. Not that I could find.
zanardi
Where is that book to be found?
Dhyana
Ooops. My husband is correcting me now as per Rav Swa's quote. It wasn't "homo-, ha ha." It was "flaming pedophile, ha ha."

You can look for the book at Amazon. ISBN: 0-226-45377-4
babu
QUOTE (angrezi @ Feb 17 2006, 03:31 PM)
i mean look at this guy
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is he a natural green or does he dye his hair?
jijaji
Kripal does get some pretty good plugs for his book;

"This book may initially shock readers,...but those with a tolerence for scandal will be rewarded with a disturbingly delightful celebration of a complex mystic and his particular brand of religion. After reading this book, my own appreciation of Ramakrishna has been enhanced immensely"
-David Haberman, Journal of Asian Studies

"Only a few books make such a major contribution to their field that from the moment of publication things are never again quite the same. Kali's Child is such a book"
-John Stratton Hawley, History of Religions

I don't have a conclusive opinion on this book as of yet, I need to finish reading it..

I do think it's a dandy topic angrezi yes indeed..

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jijaji
HEROIC HERETICAL HETEROSEXUALITY

by Jeffrey J. Kripal

[Christian churches] seem cunningly designed to condemn same-sex desire and to elicit it, to persecute it and to instruct it. I sometimes call this the paradox of the "Beloved Disciple": "Come recline beside me and put your head on my chest, but do not dare conceive of what we do as erotic." Perhaps it is more clearly seen as the paradox of the Catholic Jesus, the paradox created by an officially homophobic religion in which an all-male clergy sacrifices male flesh before images of God as an almost naked man.

Mark Jordan, The Silence of Sodom

Love's a guillotine
where a man
Must lose his head
or else
he is not shriven
in the Church of Love.
"Well," you say,
"I'd like to love—but
can't I keep my head?"
Keep it then—
But I fear you're not
destined for much success.

Ahwad al-Din, poet and friend of Ibn 'Arabi, quoted by Jim Wafer in "Passion and Vision: The Symbolism of Male Love in Islamic Mystical Literature"

Opposition is true friendship.

William Blake, The Marriage of Heaven and Hell

There was something I just didn't understand. I had been led to believe by the celibate structure and transcendent monotheism of my own religious tradition that profound and transforming religious experiences come primarily to those who renounce the active expression of sexuality. Jesus had spoken primarily of those who willingly become "eunuchs for the kingdom of heaven," that is, (symbolically?) castrated males. Paul was even more clear that the state of virginity was the most appropriate mode of being for this, our eschato-logical age. The influence of Neoplatonism on early Christian thought only served to emphasize this Jewish ascetic-eschatological strand with its dualistic emphasis on the body (soma) as a tomb (sema) to be delivered from. Consequently, much, if by no means all, of the history of Christian spirituality can be read as an amplification of this most basic of mystical teachings, namely, that the kingdom comes when the sexual doesn't. This anyway was clearly the message I received, through any number of explicit and implicit liturgical, scriptural, institutional, and iconographic channels, from the Catholicism of my youth.

Why then, I kept asking myself, did the timing of my preliminary mystical experiences (about which I will have more to say below) and dream-visions coincide precisely with the active expression of a long dormant, long repressed sexuality? My own life experience, it seems, stood in direct contrast to my tradition. It wasn't supposed to happen this way. Moreover, I asked again, why couldn't I, as hard as I might try, imagine myself into the male erotic-mystical models of Christianity? Teresa of Avila? I could understand her vision of a flaming angel plunging a fiery arrow "deep within" her until she moaned in an intense pain that was also unspeakably pleasurable. Being a woman, I thought, posed no problems for Teresa's religious imagination; her gender "fit" into the tradition and its image of the female soul as bride being penetrated by a masculine divine. But Bernard of Clairvaux and John of the Cross? What could I make of Bernard's psycho-theological descriptions of being kissed or penetrated by Christ the bridegroom?1 Or what could I make of John's poetic glossing of the "delightful wound" of his poem, Llama de amor viva? "[W]hen the soul is transpierced with that dart, the flame gushes forth, vehemently and with a sudden ascent, like the fire in a furnace or an oven when someone uses a poker or bellows, to stir and excite it. And being wounded by this fiery dart, the soul feels the wound with unsurpassable delight. . . . The fire issuing from the substance and power of that living point . . . is felt to be subtly diffused through all the spiritual and substantial veins of the soul in the measure of the soul's power and strength."2 This was a symbolic language, highly reminiscent of the phenomenology of orgasm, that made little sense to me; here, after all, was a man being entered. It was all very confusing to me. Only later would I see that the male bridal mystics had formed the tradition, however consciously, around an essentially homoerotic structure, a point similar to those advanced by scholars such as John Boswell and Mark Jordan and which I have developed in my own way above in chapter 1.3

But again, what else could such mystics have done? In a monotheistic tradition in which God is male, any relationship with the divine that is cast in sex-ualized language or experienced sexually must, by definition, be homoerotical-ly structured for males. It is as if society "captures" heterosexuality for biological reproduction and the maintenance of public social structures and will allow only the homosexual or the bisexual, really anything but heterosexuality, to "escape" into the liminal realms of mystical experience, ecstatic excess, and liturgical leisure. All sorts of alternative sexualities are at once symbolically nurtured and officially denied in the fantastically rich symbolic traditions of Catholicism: both males and females (not to mention the church) "marry" Christ, nuns are routinely given transsexually masculine names, priests wear what are essentially liturgical dresses, men and women live in celibate same-sex communities, the virtually naked body of a divine man (the crucifix) is artistically and ritually privileged, this same male body is consumed in the central rite of the Eucharist, and religious devotion is continually cast in what can only be described as a highly eroticized adoration of a divine, physically perfect male. To "love Jesus" or feel "the love of Christ," then, are often emotionally loaded, overdetermined sexual-spiritual experiences within Catholic piety, and the symbolic, vocational, liturgical, and mystical resources are rich and generous for virtually any sexual orientation, except male heterosexuality.4 Consequently, the heterosexual Catholic male, as heterosexual, as male, as Catholic, and as mystically inclined, is in a very real dilemma. Whether he knows it or not, whether he admits it or not, he is an existential, almost ontological stranger to his own tradition. As much as he might want to, he does not fit.

Howard Eilberg-Schwartz has convincingly demonstrated a similar thesis in the case of Judaism: there too God is male, Israel is imagined as his bride, and any male representative of that bride (and in such a patriarchal tradition, it is inevitably the male who represents the collective) becomes cast in an implicit homosexual role vis-à-vis the divine: "The primary relationships in Israelite imagination were between a male God and individual male Israelites, such as Moses, the patriarchs, and the prophets. . . . Men were encouraged to imagine themselves as married to and hence in a loving relationship with God. A homo-erotic dilemma was thus generated, inadvertently and to some degree unconsciously, by the super-imposition of heterosexual images on the relationship between human and divine males."5 But this can be a problem only for men who are heterosexually inclined and who want to give their love to real historical women, for "being a husband to a wife is in tension with being a wife of God."6 Granted, such a symbolism is particularly rich for male mystics who are homosexually inclined or who feel drawn to a homoerotic spirituality, but the same structure tends to generate only anxiety and confusion for those who are not, Eilberg-Schwartz argues; hence the well-known injunctions against seeing God's body, particularly his front side (that is, his phallus), in the biblical texts. The homoerotic gaze focused on God's phallus is simply too much for a tradition that must generate a homoerotic symbolic structure and deny that structure at the same time.

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I came to a remarkably similar conclusion in the seminary. It was as if "being called" (the literal meaning of a "vocation") to the priesthood was more or less synonymous with "being gay." No one, of course, put it that way, and most Catholic leaders would certainly passionately deny this, but this is precisely the effect the church's celibate all-male institutional structure and condemnation of homosexuality have on its ranks.7

Consider the following thought experiment. What are the options of a young, pious, homosexually oriented Catholic male who wishes to remain faithful to the church's present teachings? He can live in a secular society as a repressed homosexual man (for any active expression of his sexuality would only result in damning guilt and public, and most likely familial, condemnation), or he can join one of the church's innumerable same-sex communities and be richly rewarded—religiously, socially, and, usually more humbly, financially—for sublimating his homosexuality into religious expression and activity. Individuals, of course, will choose individually, but it is not difficult to guess what might happen statistically over large populations of Catholic gay males. Often, of course, the human realities are not statistically anonymous but personally tragic. Consider my friend William, whom I met in the seminary. He was gay, very gay, and he was Catholic, very Catholic, and he couldn't possibly put the two together. His solution? Remove the contradiction, that is, himself. He was in a coma for eight days after swallowing an entire bottle of sleeping pills. Luckily, he awoke. Sanely, he left the seminary and, I gather, the official church to live out his sexuality in integrity elsewhere.

And what are the options of a pious, heterosexual, Catholic male who likewise wishes to follow the church's teachings? Unlike his gay counterpart, there are no dramatic obstacles to the active, social expression of his sexuality, at least within the bounds of a marriage; hence, he is more likely to choose a sexually active lifestyle. Moreover, and just as important, he is likely not nearly as skilled as his gay brother in hiding and repressing his sexual orientation; after all, he doesn't have to. Not surprisingly, then, celibacy makes little sense to him.

When we put these two "imagined" scenarios together, the demographic conclusion is unavoidable: the seminaries, and consequently the ranks of the priesthood, fill up with a largely gay population. The irony is clear enough, if morally unacceptable: a profoundly homophobic institution creates, by the very facts of its condemnation of homosexuality and its insistence on celibacy, a rich, if deeply ambiguous, homoerotic culture.

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It was not that I found the homoerotic culture of the seminary or even the church morally objectionable. It was not that I objected either to homosexuality itself or to a sublimated homoerotic spirituality. Quite the contrary. I have seldom witnessed such profound and loving human relationships as I witnessed in the seminary, and I have only gratitude and a feeling of deep nostalgia for the individuals I came to know and love there. Sublimation is a powerful matrix: of spirituality, piety, and human community, when it works. What hurt, and what still hurts, was the awareness, dimly felt in my thoughts but clearly seen in my dreams, that the church's homoerotic structure excluded my very being from its most intimate forms of community. I could not possibly fit. I was a religious exile by virtue of my heterosexuality. And what is worse, almost no one can admit this in public. I am thus exiled by a denied truth, a stranger by virtue of an unacknowledged secret at the heart of my own indigenous mystical tradition.8

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I knew nothing of John Boswell, Howard Eilberg-Schwartz, Mark Jordan, or Ellis Hanson at the time (and indeed only Boswell had published his work by the early 1980s), and even had I known of these ideas, I am not sure that they would have helped; I was, after all, looking for a heteroerotic mysticism, not a historical thesis about a homoerotic tradition. What was a source of immense mystical power and even therapeutic resolution for someone like Louis Massignon, whose sexual orientation fitted this theological gendering, could only be a problem of ontological dimensions for someone like me. Consequently, I eventually turned to Hinduism because I found in its beautiful mythologies, striking iconographies, and mystical doctrines a fantastically rich source of mystical eroticisms of all kinds, including and especially heteroerotic systems. The Hindu goddess traditions, unlike my own failed Catholic bridal mysticism, could be explicitly heterosexual and deeply mystical at the same time. In the mirror of these same traditions, moreover, I could see even more clearly the homoerotic lines of my Catholicism: where was the goddess here? In essence, Hinduism saved me by giving me back who I was, by assuring me that being heterosexual and aspiring to a sexually expressed mystical life were not mutually exclusive options. I was struck in particular by the Hindu Tantra, as I saw it as the mirror opposite of Christian bridal mysticism. Here, after all, was a tradition that saw the human aspirant as masculine and the divine as feminine. Here, I believed, was a tradition in which I could find an erotic mysticism that made sense, that is, one in which males had erotic encounters with females and not other males. Here, finally and most important, was a tradition that had developed an entire spectrum of monistic and nondual ontologies that, at least in theory, promised to make some sense of the intimate connection between sexual and mystical experience I had seen so darkly in my dreams. Such nondualisms, I hoped, devoid of the usual theistic assumptions about God's transcendence, did not have to "split" the body and soul apart in a dualistic fashion. The sacralization of sexuality seemed to be a genuine possibility here.

Thus, I began my studies of the Hindu Tantra after being somewhat frustrated with the consistently homoerotic structures that I found working in my own mystical traditions; finding myself heterosexually oriented, I had had enough of male mystics becoming women to marry a male Christ. Sadly, I was thus something of a misfit in my own mystical tradition. Consequently, I turned to the study of Tantra because I imagined it to be a tradition structured around heterosexual rituals, divinities, and experiences. And what did I find? I found Ramakrishna, another male mystic "becoming a woman" in order to engage male divinities (and other human beings) in erotic and quasi-erotic encounters. In short, I was back to the very homoeroticism I thought I had left behind. I discovered, moreover, that the heterosexual symbols and rituals that first attracted my attention Ramakrishna himself rejected. And why not? Much as I had perceived Catholic bridal mysticism, Ramakrishna found such symbols to be structured around a sexual orientation that he did not share, in his case a heterosexual one; Ramakrishna and I, in other words, were in a very similar structural dilemma, if for opposite reasons—I understood him precisely because I was both like and unlike him. My search for a heteroerotic mysticism thus ended in a rather spectacular, and deeply ironic, failure.

But was such a fruitful failure really so surprising? The heterosexual Tantric mystic, after all, is consistently described as a "hero" (vira), his sexual encounters with the goddess are understood to be fraught with great risk, and Tantra itself is copiously described as something dangerous and terrifying—strange terms indeed for a heterosexuality that many men experience as a source of pleasure, beauty, and well-being. It is as if the male Tantrika must fight for this heterosexuality against great odds. Such a hunch is confirmed when we remember that Tantric goddesses, Kali foremost among them, often appear in mystical traditions dominated by the emotional-devotional states of the infant or child, the oft-stated goal of mystically merging with the mother, and a bewildering symbolic complex of motherliness, sexuality, grace, and violence. It is in such a context, I think, that we can best place, understand, and appreciate the striking prominence of transvestism and decapitation as symbolic castration (lots of male horned animals lose their heads in the goddess traditions) in her cultus. "The rapture of recognizing (and being recognized by) the mother's affirming presence together with the ambivalent anguish in response to her individuality-destroying embrace are the complementary affects evoked and condensed in the worship of Kali,"9 Sudhir Kakar writes, following what can only be described as a very strong, if always controversial, scholarly consensus.

The Tantrika's heroism, in other words, lies in his courageous refusal to renounce his adult heterosexuality before the mother and her individuality-denying, if sexually blissful and loving, presence. Even here, then, a mystical heterosexuality cannot be assumed; it must be fought for and won from a kind of maternal annihilation. We must also keep in mind that these heteroerotic traditions are considered to be radically heterodox, esoteric traditions that go directly against the more public, orthodox concerns of the culture. Once again, it is a mystical heterosexuality that does not fit the religious norm; hence its heroic, essentially heretical status.

This same pattern of a heterodox heterosexuality and an orthodox homo-eroticism is also seen in the case of Bengali Vaishnavism, where the ultimate goal is to share in the bliss of Krishna's love play with Radha in Vrindavana. The key question, however, is how. In the orthodox, or Gaudiya, tradition, the male devotee can never take on the persona of the male god Krishna, for this would render him guilty of the "pride of being male" (puruhsabhimana); he can participate in Krishna's eternal lila, or "play," with Radha only through a feminine identification, that is, by becoming a sakhi, or female attendant, of Radha. Hence the popular folk saying in Bengal that "except for Arjuna and Krishna, everyone has nipples"; that is to say, we are all women in relation to the divine. In the heterodox Sahajiya tradition, on the other hand, the male devotee can take on the nature of Krishna; that is, he can assert his own male heterosexuality within his mystical sadhana or practice with a human woman now understood to be Radha.10 Interestingly, it is precisely this practiced heterosexual masculinity that renders him both Sahajiya and heretical. As with the Christian materials, it is what we today would call sexual orientation that determines both orthodoxy and heresy, and, once again, it is heterosexuality that is heretical.

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1 November 1999. I remember distinctly a dream I had in the seminary. I was in the water and sexually aroused. On one side was a beautiful woman, on the other Christ. It was clear to me in the dream that I had to choose between them. The choice, then, was both between a celibate religious or a secular sexual life and a homoerotic or a heteroerotic orientation. Interestingly, the dream set the choice up in a way that allied or analogized the religious and the homoerotic— the dream knew. In any case, the choice, if it ever was one, was made for me, as it were, for it was the woman, not Christ, who ultimately attracted my libidinal energies—this was the direction of my desire, toward the feminine and hence away from Christ(ianity). The dream knew perfectly well then what I have since come to know only gradually and through and with considerable pain and mourning—that Catholicism is homoerotically structured, and that I, as an active heterosexual male, do not and cannot fit into its present symbolic and institutional system.

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9 June 2000 (University of Notre Dame). I am surrounded here by Madonnas, on the sidewalks, on the buildings, on the golden dome overlooking this beautiful campus. I was standing in front of the administration building yesterday. On top of it stands a remarkable golden Virgin Mary perched on a golden dome that sparkles in the sun. Exactly opposite her, down on the ground, stands an androgynous-looking, longhaired Jesus and his Sacred Heart, his hands uplifted, a Latin verse etched below him: "Venite ad me omnes" [All come to me]. (On a humorous note, the less pious students note the upraised hands and the statue's position before the perched Virgin to dub this statue the "Don't Jump Ma! Jesus." "Touchdown Jesus," his arms raised, like a referee's signaling a touchdown, to bless the world, graces the library and overlooks the football stadium. "First-Down Moses," his index finger raised high, stands before another entrance to the library. And "Christ Teaching (Ballet)" wears a dainty nightgown-looking garment on the other side of campus.) I looked up at the Virgin and turned around to look again at the Jesus wanting to embrace me, and I thought to myself: "This is just perfect-I'm caught again between a sexless Virgin and a homoerotic Jesus. That pretty much sums up my experience of Catholicism."

And yet, that's not quite fair. An adolescent Catholicism may have almost killed me, but a more mature one possessed certain "openings" through which I could pass to be healed (a Freudian monk) and to explore other religious worlds (my seminary classes in the history of religions and the Vatican II document Nostra aetate). And even the Virgin herself, if I can speak for a moment about her as if she possessed a subjectivity apart from ours, was hardly oppressive. Indeed, although the Virgin Mary operated in ways almost entirely pathological in my adolescent mind (as an illicit object of my unconscious incestuous desires), "she" gracefully transformed herself into a Greek maiden to heal me and eventually (as we will see after chapter 3) into a Hindu goddess to unite with me as a lover. It is very difficult for me to be bitter about all of this. It is very easy for me to feel mournful and nostalgic.

20 June 2000. My struggle with Catholicism has never been simply a matter of belief. It has always been a matter of (sexual) being, a profound crisis or conflict between two orders of being: my heterosexual existence and the tradition's homoerotic structure.

3 March 1986 (Chicago). Deep in the night, two brief but powerful raptures. I'm not sure if they were "real," that is, if they affected my psychophysical organism, or if they were pure dream projections. In any case, they happened. There was a sense of pleasure, an energy; by a sheer movement of the will, the power was directed toward a rapture in which my body was flooded with a pleasure sensation and my mind was propelled into a light that was dark. No one taught me the mechanics of the "flight"—I instinctively knew what to do. A certain degree of fear was involved. The dream state was very deep. The experience reminded me of the other incident in which by a sheer movement of thought I found my consciousness leaving my body in a half-sleep—then fear brought me immediately back. Last night, a certain raptus was effected, despite the fear. The flight, however, was within. It was as if desire, directed inward, "broke through" some level of my psyche and body and, projected onto inner space, created a sort of inner radiance.

Notes

1. Bernard of Clairvaux, Sermones super cantica canticorum, sermons 2-4; for a good translation, see Bernard of Clairvaux on the Song of Songs, vol. 1, trans. Kilian Walsh, O.C.S.O. (Kalamazoo, Mich.: Cistercian Publications, 1981).

2. Saint John of the Cross, The Living Flame of Love, in The Collected Works of St. John of the Cross, Trans. Kieran Kavanaugh and Otilio Rodriguez (Washington, D.C.,: ICS Publications, 1979).

3. John Boswell, Christiantiy, Social Tolerance, and Homosexuality: Gay People in Western Europe from the Beginning of the Christian Era to the Fourteenth Century (Chicago: University of Chicago Press, 1980): Mark Jordan, The Silence of Sodom: Homosexuality and Modern Catholicism (Chicago: University of Chicago Press, 2000).

4. My own experience of these patterns has been made more conscious, and dramatically confirmed, by reading Jordan's Silence of Sodom.

5. Howard Eilberg-Schwartz, God's Phallus and Other Problems for Men and Monotheism, (Boston: Beacon Press, 1994), 99.

6. Ibid., 195.

7. My argument here is purely anecdotal, that is, autobiographical, but my conclusions are more than supported by a remarkable literature of historical, sociological, and psychological studies on homosexuality and the priesthood. For a summary of these, see Jordan, The Silence of Sodom. For two major historical treatments and an overwhelming fund of ancient and medieval support for this ancient thesis, see Boswell, Christianity, Social Tolerance and Homosexuality; and Mark Jordan, The Invention of Sodomy in Christian Theology (Chicago: University of Chicago Press, 1997).

8. Since I wrote these lines, the situation has changed considerably, catalyzed largely by the appearance of Donald B. Cozzen's remarkable book The Changing Face of the Priesthood, published by an enlightened Benedictine press (Collegeville, Minn.: Liturgical Press, 2000). Cozzens, president-rector and professor of pastoral theology at Saint Mary Seminary and Graduate School of Theology in Cleveland, writes honestly and "from the inside" about the significance of homosexuality among Catholic seminaries, draws on historical scholarship to suggest that this has likely always been the case (even as he contextualizes the present crisis in a post-Vatican II American Catholicism that has seen twenty thousand [no doubt mostly heterosexual] priests leave the ministry to marry), worries out loud about the effects a largely gay seminary culture might have on heterosexual men interested in the priesthood, and calls for more open discussion about whether the Catholic priesthood has become a "gay profession." His closing lines of chapter 7 appear prophetic to me: "The priesthood's crisis of soul, and by extension, the Church's crisis of soul, is in part a crisis of orientation. Sooner or later the issue will be faced more forthrightly than it has in the closing decades of the twentieth-century. The longer the delay, the greater the harm to the priesthood and to the Church." (110). "A crisis of orientation"—that is precisely what the present work is all about, extended well beyond the present vocational crisis into the theological and mystical depths of the tradition.

9. Sudhar Kakar, The Inner World (New Delhi: Oxford University Press, 1978), 173.

10. Shashibhushan Dasgupta, Obscure Religious Cults (1946; 3d ed., Calcutta: Firma KLM, 1976), 126, 130.

Excerpted from Roads of Excess, Palaces of Wisdom: Eroticism & Reflexivity in the Study of Mysticism by Jeffrey J. Kripal. Published by the University of Chicago Press. Copyright 2001. All rights reserved.
jijaji
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I could not possibly fit. I was a religious exile by virtue of my heterosexuality.
Here Kripal mentions his heterosexuality, many of his critics say that his research into the original bengali 'ramakrishna kathamrtam' (Gospel of Ramakrishna) and Kripals seeing homoerotic tendencies in Ramakrishna is nothing but projecting his own homosexual tendencies onto the Saint. But as we see here Kripal says he is heterosexual, for the record.
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angrezi
many homosexuals like to think themselves heterosexual and vice versa. Kripal needs to place his penis in a bonafide line and forget about semantics.
angrezi
QUOTE (Dhyana @ Feb 17 2006, 05:38 PM)
Ooops. My husband is correcting me now as per Rav Swa's quote. It wasn't "homo-, ha ha." It was "flaming pedophile, ha ha."

You can look for the book at Amazon. ISBN: 0-226-45377-4
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Yes I suppose ravindra is well aquainted with flaming pedophiles
jijaji
QUOTE (angrezi @ Feb 18 2006, 03:45 AM)
many homosexuals like to think themselves heterosexual and vice versa. Kripal needs to place his penis in a bonafide line and forget about semantics.
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Sorry but if you want me to take Kripals side I just can't, I haven't even finished his book yet, I was just showing what he himself says about his sexuality..

Have you read any of Kali's Child your self?

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angrezi
QUOTE (jijaji @ Feb 18 2006, 12:00 AM)
QUOTE (angrezi @ Feb 18 2006, 03:45 AM)
many homosexuals like to think themselves heterosexual and vice versa. Kripal needs to place his penis in a bonafide line and forget about semantics.
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Sorry but if you want me to take Kripals side I just can't, I haven't even finished his book yet, I was just showing what he himself says about his sexuality..

Have you read any of Kali's Child your self?

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I don't know if youre man enough to take his side big boy.
i read the intro and looked at the pictures.
angrezi
no i'm just sh*tting you , I read it cause i was forced to by the establishment
Prisni
QUOTE (jijaji @ Feb 18 2006, 02:02 AM)
This same pattern of a heterodox heterosexuality and an orthodox homo-eroticism is also seen in the case of Bengali Vaishnavism, where the ultimate goal is to share in the bliss of Krishna's love play with Radha in Vrindavana. The key question, however, is how. In the orthodox, or Gaudiya, tradition, the male devotee can never take on the persona of the male god Krishna, for this would render him guilty of the "pride of being male" (puruhsabhimana); he can participate in Krishna's eternal lila, or "play," with Radha only through a feminine identification, that is, by becoming a sakhi, or female attendant, of Radha. Hence the popular folk saying in Bengal that "except for Arjuna and Krishna, everyone has nipples"; that is to say, we are all women in relation to the divine. In the heterodox Sahajiya tradition, on the other hand, the male devotee can take on the nature of Krishna; that is, he can assert his own male heterosexuality within his mystical sadhana or practice with a human woman now understood to be Radha.10 Interestingly, it is precisely this practiced heterosexual masculinity that renders him both Sahajiya and heretical. As with the Christian materials, it is what we today would call sexual orientation that determines both orthodoxy and heresy, and, once again, it is heterosexuality that is heretical.
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I am not completely convinced that the western biased view on Bengali Vaisnavism is completely accurate. This since the philosophy offers an obvious and easy way out. The philosophy appears constructed to offer this way out, which is why I am doubtful that the western contemporary viewpoint is accurate.

The obvious way out is the symmetrical godhead, consisting of two personalities of godhead - Radha and Krishna. And the group of gopis and gopas, who according to taste can have whatever relationship with Radha and/or Krishna that they want.

Examine the sakhis, for example. They do not have a heterosexual relationship with Krishna. Their relationship is primarily with Radha, even though they are definitively female. So either we construct a philosophy that says that Radha is actually male, and the sakhis, as everyone else, are female. Just to make the relationship heterosexual. (And some groups come very near to that), or we just open up for that you can have a relationship to anyone, no matter what sex, and thus make the sakhis love to Radha completely allright.

A similar situation exist for those gopas who primarily have a relationship with Krishna. In that case it is easier to proclaim the gopas as "female" and Krishna the only male, but isn't it easier to accept that a male persona can have a loving relationship with Krishna?

And, regarding to what you write, that males can only take part in the lila by feminine, identification, what about the cowherd boys, the gopas? Are they just extras, of no importance, just to create an illusion of what Krishna is doing during the days, or can they take active part in the lilas? Maybe bengal Vaisnavism does not cover the gopas as much as the gopis, but that does not matter that they can be just as active.

Maybe we can see the current western trend, that everyone should be gopis and manjaris, as the heterosexual western males hidden sexual desires? How can everyone be manjaris? Why should everyone be manjaris? There is a possible explanation to that dilemma, but I won't get in to it here.
Ayyapan
QUOTE (Prisni @ Feb 18 2006, 08:28 AM)
A similar situation exist for those gopas who primarily have a relationship with Krishna. In that case it is easier to proclaim the gopas as "female" and Krishna the only male, but isn't it easier to accept that a male persona can have a loving relationship with Krishna?

And, regarding to what you write, that males can only take part in the lila by feminine, identification, what about the cowherd boys, the gopas? Are they just extras, of no importance, just to create an illusion of what Krishna is doing during the days, or can they take active part in the lilas? Maybe bengal Vaisnavism does not cover the gopas as much as the gopis, but that does not matter that they can be just as active.
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Also, if you start to feminize like this to avoid male to male relationships (or masculize to avoid female to female relations) you will get quite entangled - and you may end up that everybody, or at least a great many, in the spiritual realm is suffering from split-personality disorder! huh.gif

As for the gopas, they are actually just "half-active" - they frolic in the day, but sleep at night. Whereas the gopis are really something extraordinary - as they churn butter in the day and dance all night! ohmy.gif

I never understood how they do it...
(and personally I think it not very healthy!) wink.gif
babu
QUOTE (Dhyana @ Feb 17 2006, 05:38 PM)
My husband is correcting me
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nice to see you haven't entirely giving up the vedic process of enlightenment
babu
QUOTE (Dhyana @ Feb 17 2006, 05:01 PM)
My husband was alerted as to the existence of the book by Ravindra Svarupa, who referred to it with an obvious Schadenfreude: "Have you heard, one guy has written a book in which he proves Ramakrishna was a homo-, ha ha ha!" Yet there is nothing of that attitude in the book. Not that I could find.
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its quite common for iskcon devotees to take a particular delight in the falldowns and misconceptions or apparent falldowns and misconceptions of others ... often their own godbrothers, sisters ... this was the big turn-off for me that led to my departure from iskcon... this delighting in others spiritualists faults and misfortunes that filled up the bhagavatam class... rascal, etc
jijaji
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How can everyone be manjaris?

I agree 150%...how could everyone WANT to be a majari for all eternity? It is just illogical to me, we had this converation at GD you may recall and the verse in CC came up wherein Sri Chaitanya says he makes the three worlds dance with the 'four bhavas'...this shows even he had a different attitude about an all manjari monopoly on eternity...

The part you refer to was just a little added extra by Kripal and I just wanted to show the entire article, it was mainly to show his outlook and that he himself claims he is heterosexual and questioning if he is projecting that onto Ramakrishna in his book 'Kali's Child'...


jijaji
Adrija
By the way, this is Jeffrey Kripal ~

jijaji
QUOTE (Adrija @ Feb 18 2006, 03:52 PM)
By the way, this is Jeffrey Kripal ~


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He kinda looks like angrezi a bit with four eyes...

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Adrija
QUOTE (jijaji @ Feb 18 2006, 05:11 PM)
QUOTE (Adrija @ Feb 18 2006, 03:52 PM)
By the way, this is Jeffrey Kripal ~


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He kinda looks like angrezi a bit with four eyes...

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Perhaps you are on to something here, I mean, has anyone ever seen them together? spy.gif
jijaji
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Perhaps you are on to something here, I mean, has anyone ever seen them together? spy.gif

I see your point...

I say we should keep a close eye on how they BOTH walk from now on...

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Adrija
QUOTE (jijaji @ Feb 18 2006, 05:28 PM)
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Perhaps you are on to something here, I mean, has anyone ever seen them together? spy.gif

I see your point...

I say we should keep a close eye on how they BOTH walk from now on...

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God, no! I wasn't referring to their sexuality - just that they may be one and the same person!
Mind you, you may have a point - Mr. Angrezi could be said to 'protest too much'. whistling.gif
Subhash
wait, Kripal- surely an indian name. what's the story-is this his real name?
jijaji
QUOTE (Subhash @ Feb 18 2006, 05:59 PM)
wait, Kripal- surely an indian name. what's the story-is this his real name?
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I believe you may be thinking of 'Kirpal' ...
jijaji
For the record:

Jeffrey Kripal
From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

Jeffrey Kripal is Professor of Religious Studies at Rice University and author of the 1995 book Kali's Child: The Mystical and the Erotic in the Life and Teachings of Ramakrishna, a highly controversial psychoanalytic study of the great Bengali mystic Ramakrishna.
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Kali's Child

Kali's Child won the American Academy of Religion's Best First Book in the History of Religions Prize in 1996. It alleges that Ramakrishna is driven by homoerotic, pedophiliac passions. Kripal argues that "Ramakrishna’s mystical experiences...were in actual fact profoundly, provocatively, scandalously erotic."[1] Kripal's claims have offended and enraged Hindu laymen, scholars, and religious leaders. Censoring the book was even debated in the Parliament of India. Kripal maintains, however, that less than 100 copies have been sold in India, and that few of its opponents have actually read the book.

Swami Tyagananda, minister of the Ramakrishna-Vedanta Society in Boston, wrote an 173 page rebuttal, entitled "Kali’s Child Revisited, or Didn’t Anyone Check the Documentation?". Tyagananda severely criticized Kripal's translation of Bengali phrases and said that Kripal tended to quote selectively and deceptively from the Kathamrita in order to create evidence for his interpretation. In the essay, Tyagananda alleged no less than 191 translation mistakes or deceptions by Kripal. Additionally, Tyagananda accuses Kripal of having only an elementary knowledge of the Bengali language, and no understanding of Tantra. Since both Tantra and the translation of Bengali terms play an important role in Kripal's argument, this is a strong critique.

Kripal's response was to apologize for his translation errors, but to maintain that they are not serious enough to damage the book's overall interpretation. Kripal also responded that because Tyagananda questioned Kripal's personal motives for writing the book, Tyagananda's critique amounts to an ad hominem — a type of logical fallacy. Additionally, Kripal points out that all interpretations are the product of the interaction of the reader's horizon of understanding with that of the author's. Critics point out that the same can be said of his interpretations of the original Bengali texts.

One counter-response to Kripal included an as-yet-unaccepted invitation to an open debate with Bengali scholars. The response also says that translating should not be done literally or through European pathologies, but must be based on the cultural insider's perspective on the connotations that words have in various native contexts. It also elaborates on the many faults of, the power strucutures that play a role in, and the lack of Indians in U.S. Hinduism studies. It also challenges the legitimacy of Freudian psychoanalysis of Eastern spirituality.
Subhash
QUOTE (jijaji @ Feb 18 2006, 06:10 PM)
QUOTE (Subhash @ Feb 18 2006, 05:59 PM)
wait, Kripal- surely an indian name. what's the story-is this his real name?
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I believe you may be thinking of 'Kirpal' ...
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Thank you, but no, i was thinking of Kripal. they were obviously the same name at one point anyway- some even spell it Krpal, leaving the i sound indefinite, and theres much less of a phonetic difference in a Bengal accent than an LA one. I did a Google image search for 'Kripal' and Jeff here is the only 'westerner' that came up.
I don't mean this as a criticisim (i've only read a short part of the book, and dont own it), i was just curious as it seems like an odd coincidence. Maybe he thought it would seem less like a patronisingly reductive anthropological exercise if people saw an Indian name on the cover? I hope not though. pray.gif
jijaji
QUOTE (Subhash @ Feb 18 2006, 07:10 PM)
QUOTE (jijaji @ Feb 18 2006, 06:10 PM)
QUOTE (Subhash @ Feb 18 2006, 05:59 PM)
wait, Kripal- surely an indian name. what's the story-is this his real name?
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I believe you may be thinking of 'Kirpal' ...
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Thank you, but no, i was thinking of Kripal. they were obviously the same name at one point anyway- some even spell it Krpal, leaving the i sound indefinite, and theres much less of a phonetic difference in a Bengal accent than an LA one. I did a Google image search for 'Kripal' and Jeff here is the only 'westerner' that came up.
I don't mean this as a criticisim (i've only read a short part of the book, and dont own it), i was just curious as it seems like an odd coincidence. Maybe he thought it would seem less like a patronisingly reductive anthropological exercise if people saw an Indian name on the cover? I hope not though. pray.gif
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I thought it was an odd coincidence myself when I first came to know of the book...

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Subhash
QUOTE (jijaji @ Feb 18 2006, 06:14 PM)
For the record:

Jeffrey Kripal
From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia



Swami Tyagananda, minister of the Ramakrishna-Vedanta Society in Boston, wrote an 173 page rebuttal, entitled "Kali’s Child Revisited, or Didn’t Anyone Check the Documentation?". Tyagananda severely criticized Kripal's translation of Bengali phrases and said that Kripal tended to quote selectively and deceptively from the Kathamrita in order to create evidence for his interpretation. In the essay, Tyagananda alleged no less than 191 translation mistakes or deceptions by Kripal. Additionally, Tyagananda accuses Kripal of having only an elementary knowledge of the Bengali language, and no understanding of Tantra. Since both Tantra and the translation of Bengali terms play an important role in Kripal's argument, this is a strong critique.

Kripal's response was to apologize for his translation errors, but to maintain that they are not serious enough to damage the book's overall interpretation. Kripal also responded that because Tyagananda questioned Kripal's personal motives for writing the book, Tyagananda's critique amounts to an ad hominem — a type of logical fallacy. Additionally, Kripal points out that all interpretations are the product of the interaction of the reader's horizon of understanding with that of the author's. Critics point out that the same can be said of his interpretations of the original Bengali texts.

One counter-response to Kripal included an as-yet-unaccepted invitation to an open debate with Bengali scholars. The response also says that translating should not be done literally or through European pathologies, but must be based on the cultural insider's perspective on the connotations that words have in various native contexts. It also elaborates on the many faults of, the power strucutures that play a role in, and the lack of Indians in U.S. Hinduism studies. It also challenges the legitimacy of Freudian psychoanalysis of Eastern spirituality.
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Swami Tygananda's essay here
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Sometimes Kripal's desire to shove inconvenient facts into the homoerotic box creates unintentionally comic results. Take for example Kripal's dissection of Ramakrishna and Kedar in KA 4.7.: "In still another passage, he looks at boy Kedar and is reminded of Krishna's sexual exploits with the milkmaids" (KC 66).

It's interesting that Kripal describes Kedar as a "boy." Considering that in 1882 Kedar was fifty years old and working as a government accountant, I think "boy" is an exaggeration. In fact, Kedar was older than Ramakrishna himself. But since Kripal is bound and determined to have Ramakrishna be with boys, Kripal will transform even a fifty-something into a boy. In nineteenth-century India, a man of fifty was considered elderly.

More importantly, KA 4.7 simply says that upon seeing Kedar (who was a devotee of Krishna), Ramakrishna was reminded of the Vrindavan-lila. I suppose one shouldn't be surprised to find that Kripal translates "the play in Vrindavan" (vrindavan-lila) as "Krishna's sexual exploits with the milkmaids." Though for someone who, when it suits him, can be persnickety about literal accuracy, why would he provide such an interpretative "translation"? Obviously because he wanted to emphasize his own subtext.

Pretty convincing criticisms really. Decide for yourself whether Kripal's translations damage the book as a whole. I have to say i find his writing style very forceful, and as this essay points out, loaded with a sly, but notassubtleasitthinksitis ambiguity. Also, reading his response to another,more violent, less helpful critism, while suggesting that his insights are criticised merely because hes white, he inadvertantly displays at least two instances of a very annoying superiority complex-he drops in, needlessly and completely out of context, Foucalts theory about how 'truth' used to be deigned according to where, or from whom, it was spoken, implying that modern India is essentially parallel to the 'primitive' cultures Foucalt was talking about (he doesn't even reference Foucalt). Regardless of what you think of this theory, it seems brought in merely to sound clever, and adds nothing to his point-namely that he's not being listened to because he's not part of the culture he's writing about.

Secondly he calls this implied racism 'reverse racism'. I know what inverse racism is and i know what racism is but i hate this phrase- it's basically saying 'the people we should be racist to are copying us'. A minor linguistic point, but telling nonetheless.
jijaji
Subhash,

Thanks for posting Swami Tyagananda's essay, next is Kripals rebuttle to that now I guess...

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babu
and the truth is a hybridization of the two
Subhash
I have edited the above post to correct my own unfair mistake- Irony, you say? tongue.gif

Here's Kripals responce
And blog
Subhash
I think the whole idea of Freudians dabbling in Indian philosophy without ever going through any real training/sadhana/initiation or introspective contemplation/meditation in their life is a misnomer; would they expect to be taken seriously as psychologists if they just 'hung out' with a few Viennese for a while and learnt a bit of jargon and history of the movement ?
Subhash
mothering Freudians
angrezi
thanks for posting Tyagananda's essay Subash. I was gonna do it on monday, its on my other computer. perhaps wendy doniger should be included in this discussion?
angrezi
QUOTE (Adrija @ Feb 18 2006, 01:22 PM)
QUOTE (jijaji @ Feb 18 2006, 05:11 PM)
QUOTE (Adrija @ Feb 18 2006, 03:52 PM)
By the way, this is Jeffrey Kripal ~


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He kinda looks like angrezi a bit with four eyes...

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Perhaps you are on to something here, I mean, has anyone ever seen them together? spy.gif
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Give that dweeb 6 existential crises and pour 4 vats of beer and one of bourbon down his silly academic windpipe over a decade and you may have a slight reflection of myself, minus the gay suspenders
angrezi
QUOTE (Adrija @ Feb 18 2006, 01:42 PM)
QUOTE (jijaji @ Feb 18 2006, 05:28 PM)
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Perhaps you are on to something here, I mean, has anyone ever seen them together? spy.gif

I see your point...

I say we should keep a close eye on how they BOTH walk from now on...

snap.gif
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God, no! I wasn't referring to their sexuality - just that they may be one and the same person!
Mind you, you may have a point - Mr. Angrezi could be said to 'protest too much'. whistling.gif
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what exactly am i protesting my dear?
angrezi
has anybody here actually read this book? or is this thread a hack, a bore , a slander, a fizzle, a dud, a rant, a rave, a forum fave?
jijaji
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Give that dweeb 6 existential crises and pour 4 vats of beer and one of bourbon down his silly academic windpipe over a decade and you may have a slight reflection of myself, minus the gay suspenders
I thought those were just yuppie 'suspenders', how can you tell?

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angrezi
QUOTE (jijaji @ Feb 18 2006, 11:18 PM)
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Give that dweeb 6 existential crises and pour 4 vats of beer and one of bourbon down his silly academic windpipe over a decade and you may have a slight reflection of myself, minus the gay suspenders
I thought those were just yuppie 'suspenders', how can you tell?

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if you dont know, you know. you know?
angrezi
this is why i generally dont start threads. its too much pressure for performance and wittyness and i just go limp
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QUOTE (angrezi @ Feb 18 2006, 10:33 PM)
this is why i generally dont start threads. its too much pressure for performance and wittyness and i just go limp
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click here to view angrezi's topics
angrezi
Click here to veiw nude meta pics
jijaji
RISA Lila - 1: Wendy's Child Syndrome
by: Rajiv Malhotra on Sep 6 2002

“The Bhagavad Gita is not as nice a book as some Americans think…Throughout the Mahabharata ... Krishna goads human beings into all sorts of murderous and self-destructive behaviors such as war.... The Gita is a dishonest book …”

-- Wendy Doniger, Professor of History of Religions, University of Chicago.
Quoted in Philadelphia Inquirer, 19 November, 2000

“1. Sri Ramakrishna, the 19th century Hindu saint, has been declared by these scholars as being a sexually-abused homosexual, and it has become “academically established” by Wendy Doniger's students that Ramakrishna was a child molester, and had also forced homosexual activities upon Vivekananda. Furthermore, it has become part of this new “discovery” that Ramakrishna's mystical experiences, and indeed those of Hindu mystics in general, are pathological sexual conditions that need to be psychoanalyzed as such. Furthermore, these scholars have concluded that the entire Hindu society needs to be psychoanalyzed in terms of sexual deviance, in order to understand modern Indian society and politics objectively.“

See Wendy's Child Syndrome --->>> here
Aran
Amongst other stuff, there is on this site some dialogues on a book about Ganesh (and his limp phallic trunk) by Paul Courtright - another member of Doniger's brood. This material is interesting but requires some patience.
HERE
Subhash
Has anyone ever read an anthropological essay in which the lives, and lineages of St Francis of Assisi and Chaitanya are compared? It also brings in the disintegration of KC as a contemporary parallel(somewhat questionably).
I read it quite a while ago, and can't remember enough to adequately summarise it's arguements, and cant find it amidst the vast database of the international Anthropology society. I do remember it as a rare instance of someone who, though clearly lacking in much knowledge of Hindu culture, nonetheless draws a fruitful perspective which in it's very objectivity gives a fresh insight into the way in which radical socio-economic/religious ideas can so easily be reabsorbed into the culture they were reacting against. If anyone can find this, it's well worth reading, i would very much like to read it again.


Edited beacuse i seem incapable of typing the word 'one'-What would Jung say?
angrezi
I misspoke before. authentic sour mash bourbon is indeed fermented in vats yet aged in oak barrels which are charred on the inside; the corn (70% by US law if I remember correctly) based liquid is drawn into the wood and released in regional climatic cycles, of which that of the Appalacian foothills is considered ideal.

The drink was made by 'accident' when a Kentucky distiller sent whiskey to New Orleans in the early 1700's, aged in casks damaged by fire.
Aran
QUOTE (Subhash @ Feb 19 2006, 05:43 PM)
Edited beacuse i seem incapable of typing the word 'one'-What would Jung say?
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I know what James Hillman would say.
Adrija
QUOTE (Subhash @ Feb 19 2006, 05:43 PM)
Has anyone ever read an anthropological essay in which the lives, and lineages of St Francis of Assisi and Chaitanya are compared? It also brings in the disintegration of KC as a contemporary parallel(somewhat questionably).
I read it quite a while ago, and can't remember enough to adequately summarise it's arguements, and cant find it amidst the vast database of the international Anthropology society. I do remember it as a rare instance of someone who, though clearly lacking in much knowledge of Hindu culture, nonetheless draws a fruitful perspective which in it's very objectivity gives a fresh insight into the way in which radical socio-economic/religious ideas can so easily be reabsorbed into the culture they were reacting against. If anyone can find this, it's well worth reading, i would very much like to read it again.


Edited beacuse i seem incapable of typing the word 'one'-What would Jung say?
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Subhash, I thought this might be of interest to you -

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