QUOTE (Kula-pavana @ Feb 21 2007, 01:28 PM)
QUOTE (rhapsodieff @ Feb 20 2007, 08:07 PM)
Sense of proportion - I could go further and say that preachers who belittle women are just as responsible for the domestic violence that women suffer in the home as the perpetrator who is taught that women are their property and are better if beaten into submission. That these same preachers are also responsible for the justification of homophobic violence by their adherents... Then there is violence against children - beating them to drive the demon's out, Like in the Climbie case here in the UK, and of course children catholic schools and orphanages and in ISKCON gurukuli and elsewhere - you want more examples of the evils of religion?
and what does that have to do with a sense of proportion?
are you saying that Old Testament based religion recommending death by stoning for homosexuality is just as bad as Manu Samhita based religion which recommends atoning for the sin of homosexuality by drinking milk?
like I said: you have no sense of proportions in your condemnations. there are HUGE differences between religions just like there are huge differences between different versions of "humanism". for example, Stalin also promoted humanism to replace religion, killing tens of millions of people in the process - do you want me to put you in the same category?
More examples since you seem to wish to have them...
Homosexuality is not a sin. It is inborn like being female, black or asian. Another religious distortion since you want to pick up on that. In some societies like the polynesian and some native american groups, homosexuals were honoured members of society and formed a priesthood before the Christian missionaries got at them.
But to return to the Manu Samhita and its followers..
Is being a woman a sin? To read the purports to Srimad Bhagavatam and Bhagavad Gita as it is it is clearly stated that women are a lower form of life, less intelligent, and are inherently lustful=sinful.
The virtuous woman should become sati on the death of her husband, that is immolate herself on her husband's funeral pyre. Otherwise historically the only way for such women to support themselves was to resort to prostitution.
Is being black also a sin? The word varna (used for caste) literally means colour. Those of darker skin colour are lower caste and therefore outside the pale and not to come into contact with the pure, their very shadow being polluting. Killing them is justified if they attempt to come into the temple to worship or if they "purposely" pollute those of the Dvija (twice born) castes, stoning being one of the favoured methods as it avoids the "pollluting" touch. There are several recent cases in India that I can look up and give you the links to if you so wish.
Westerners, indeed anyone born outside India are of course unclean "mleccha"- outcastes according to vedic principles.
Are Gaudiya Vaisnava "exalted" devotees justified in throwing muslims out of a moving train?
I would say that communism (stalinism and the offshoots) and fascism present in their own ways an alternative belief system to which blind adherence is required by followers, in that they are no different to other "religious" beliefs.
All religions and belief systems have a dark side. We need to be aware of that and consider whether those belief systems have a place in our hearts. Is reform needed? Perhaps. Should I crusade to do it? Perhaps not, but I can ask the uncomfortable questions of the adherents and quote examples from my life experience, and then maybe those adherents will think more carefully about the potential damage that their words can cause. There are always vulnerable people who can be, and are, damaged by such unthinking, or in some cases calculated behaviours. I do challenge these behaviours and it does not always make me either the most popular person or the most comfortable to be around. So be it. If I can influence one person to be more compassionate and caring, more humane even, then my job is done.
I personally try to treat all people I work with, meet or associate with, with respect, and discover that by so doing you can give them a feeling of being valued. There is always hope, even for the most degenerate, despairing, and dissipated individuals. I personally have been responsible for lowering the annual death rate among homeless drug and alcohol users locally. In a cohort of about 100 people, many ex-military we were getting about 15 deaths a year through suicide, drug overdose and similar causes. This reduced over two years to 5. How was this accomplished? Usually by listening and understanding. The causes were usually rooted in family break-up and loss of structure in their lives after leaving the army resulting in low self esteem and self destructive behaviours. These men, and they are predominantly men, came back to the one place where they had structure and a sense of worth, indeed where they were last "happy"; The army base in Aldershot, Hampshire "the home of the British Army".
I do not condemn people for their lifestyle choices or for the circumstances in which they find themselves. All I do is provide a listening ear and use my knowledge of the "system" to prod those in "authority" who should be there to help to fulfil their statutory duty. The reward I get is seeing these people once again becoming "useful" members of society. What can compare with the reward of being able to go home at night and having the satisfaction of knowing that you helped one real person to make their life better if only by an infinitesimal amount?This led once to me being intensely embarrassed. It was at a major public function with the local Member of Parliament (MP), local authority staff and elected officials and a couple of Central Government Ministers. The MP was giving a speech, droning on as politicains do and I was half asleep, when he called me to come up to the podium. He then proceeded to praise me for the work I was doing in the locality, much to my horror, he actually called me the most poweful person in his constituency!!!

Some time afterwards I received a letter from Buckingham Palace stating that I had been nominated for an "honour". I declined, because the reward I got from doing my job as it should be done was sufficient. There were other reasons which i do not wish to go into.
If I have one blind spot it is that I find those that do take a judgemental, fundamentalist approach hard to understand. They to me seem to have suspended their critical faculty in favour of being spoonfed a system of belief which is at variance with the reality of people living in the world. Perhaps this trait is inherited. One of my great uncles died in Dachau for being a socialist and perhaps for being 1/4 Jewish. One of my grandfathers was reduced in the ranks from major to private because he questioned orders given on the Somme in the the First World War. At another time or place it is quite likely that death by some unpleasant method would have been my fate too instead of being able to blather on here.
As you may have gathered I am bit of a mixture, one great grandmother was Indian, one grandmother was Irish (pagan - worshipping the mother), another great grandfather was half German, half Jewish. My mother's father served in the Indian Army (he was the one who was reduced in the ranks) as did his father and my father and his family before him were British Army. There is nothing like a military family for being anti militaristic - grin. I consider myself fortunate to have had such a multicultural background and being taught from an early age never to accept blindly anything I was told but look at and to question everything.
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